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tjp613 Of course you are intelligent enough to realize this is the hallmark of an abuser, right? Insecurity and control. Big FAT waving scarlet RED FLAG.
Yep. He has said this exact same thing before so at least I can say he's being consistent. I haven't heard the rapist stuff yet, that was new. I see it as him manipulating me into feeling sorry for him or into NOT giving him s*x so that he can blame me for his s*xless marriage. It's easy to figure out.