Originally Posted by
Jur123 
Thank you Angie. You are very kind. I admire you. I wish I was so strong.
I know I need to distance myself, but it's so hard. I have so many years of "experience" of codependence that I don't even know what it is like to be normal.
Jur, your stronger than you realize I have not been working on recovery very long just a few months or so. I joined here in 2007 but didn't stay because at that time it was one of my sons who was addicted and he kept getting locked up. How I wish I had started my recovery journey then.
I have 4o years of codependency I have faith in you, I believe you can start taking care of you
