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Learn2Live Lizatola, I recommend you get the book "Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life," by Cloud & Townsend.
I've read this and other books by both authors. I hear what everyone is saying here and I understand that I am setting myself up for most likely disappointment. I still feel that I need to get past our current situation, only comfortable talking about the weather and what's for dinner. Divorce is truly my last resort and I want to be able to say that I did everything in my power to keep us together even if he drops the ball on his side. I know it sounds crazy and maybe it will lead to a temporary reprieve, that's ok. Just buys me time to get a back up plan in action.