This is so hard
My sons were evict from their apt. Today. One of my sons took off on a bicycle from the city he was living in for parts unknown. Did not tell his brother where he was going. I am pretty sure he has mental issues. I am afraid I'll never here from him again.
The other will be living out of his car. He seems and acts more grounded than I have ever seen before. Ithink he is relieved that he doesn't have to be "his brother's keeper" anymore. The fact still remains that they have squandered lots of money and made bad choices which I had no input or control over..
Please pray for them. I have remained strong in my boundary of no adult child will live with me again, but this is the hardest thing I have ever done. It feels like a funeral.
I know others have been where I am today and I just need to know this too shall pass. Right now, the only thought that keeps me moving forward is that I can't go back to the insanity of having them all live with me again---that I am sure of.
Huggs,
HOpe