This is great info, and reminds me how we simply have to live our lives, and step over the A if necessary. I just read a great interview with Ozzy Osbourne, who talked about Sharon's "tough love" (Ozzy has been clean and sober for 5 years):
Q: You credit (wife and manager) Sharon with helping pull you out of substance abuse, even saving your life.
A: She gave me some tough love. One time I was having a bad comedown from some stuff at 4 a.m. and I said, "I think I'm dying." And she goes, "Die quietly. I have a meeting tomorrow morning."