Originally Posted by
fourmaggie 
^^^ thank you...i have a meeting with her today...
with some thinking...i have realized i can not work in that type of work environment...and yes its time for me to leave....if this meeting does not work out...
4 strikes and your out!...and i am sorry, i can not "live and let live"....this is my pay, and i have rights....
this is now gonna be one of my boundaries also Laurie....NO WORKING FOR FAMILY
I also follow the 3 strikes rule for most parts of my life! Works well in most circumstances. ; )
And I wholeheartedly second not working for family. My 18 yr old D recently quit a job she had working for the BIL. They really took advantage of her and had her doing things under the guise of "family" that made her uncomfortable and defeated the purpose of why she wanted to job in the first place. I let her quit on the spot 3 weeks ago. She called her previous boss and got her old job back instantly, so I think it was all meant to be.
Good luck!
~T