take each day as it comes......I understand the anger..... when I feel angry I try and work through it...for me it has faded the more I face reality if that makes any sense.
We are still living together....and sometimes I too feel hate towards him (particularly at night when he is drunk and verbally abusing me)...however the more I accept that I don't wish to continue living like this the less angry I am.......my anger has def subsided over the years. Sometimes I just feel really really sad about it all.
My advice is to keep doing what your doing.....keep busy and you will get there. Take care Phiz :0)