My opinion, just let it go.
I used to feel that way too, what I realized was, that it was a form of control.
Bottom line is, in active addiction, they only believe what they want to believe and they don't believe that alcohol has caused them any problems.
To me , it wasn't worth the aggravation of putting myself out there to get shot down.
My guess is , he wants the counselor to support his theory of you being the crazy one and him being just fine. The further away I get from those conversations the better I feel.