The fact that we are sensitive and understanding means we have an obligation to figure out why other people feel bad when they do. And FIX IT. I feel like we're raised to be some kind of emotional plumbers with 24/7/365 on-call status.
So true
Lillamy. Good insight. I think maybe I will just change tactics and become a chef. Then, when I see someone I want to caretake, I can just give them pork chops with mashed potatoes and gravy and my job is DONE.