You certainly have the right to feel the way you do about this situation. Unfortunately there is not much you can do to make him quit because this decision has to be made 100 percent by him alone. I'll tell you what worked for me - my wife took my son and left. She didn't necessarily say she was divorcing me, but instead said we needed time apart because I was destroying her life as well as my sons. After loosing my family, I realized how stupid I was for choosing booze over them. I haven't drank in over three months and I have never felt better. I'm not saying this will work for you, but its the only thing that worked for me.