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Old 07-14-2012, 01:42 PM
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sweetteewalls
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I am not sure what I said in my post that is being conveyed like I am even en route back to reconciliation. My intention in posting was just with what he has said has actually reassured me that I am making the right choice in staying separated. Sometimes when you're insecure and have been abused, you don't have a confidence in your choices and now his words have affirmed my decision. That is all I was saying.

I read so many posts about how the significant others are still living with the irrational behavior or considering counseling when the A is still immersed and not acknowledging their problems and I know it can be worse. Separated AH isn't making excuses for abuse or behavior, he is explaining the internal battle that goes on in his mind which shows me that he is owning his issues and I need to stop taking on what he needs to do himself.

I had never really experienced anything negative on a post until now. This is the kind of thing that makes me reluctant to post in the future.
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