1. Exercise. When I was with the alcoholic, my entire being seemed to revolve around her and she despised exercise. Me, I before getting with her was obsessed with it. Now that it is gone, I can indulge in the weight room and the track once again.
2. My Harley. That bike is the best thing ever, myself and my uncle ride every weekend, I thought the alcoholic could get into riding and she tells me "you need to get saddlebags for my 12 pack".....wow.
3. Al Anon, my support group and lifeline.