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Old 07-10-2012, 04:25 PM
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allthatsgood
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tjp613 - What would he do if I wasn't around? I can't tell you how many times I've asked myself that question. I don't want him to be dependent on me. I always hope and pray that he will live an independent, responsible and honest life. In my heart of hearts, I believe that he does want to live on his own and be independent. It's something he has talked about many times. His brother (24) and sister (28) have achieved that and he has told me he wants the same. I give him about $30 a week in addition to paying the SLE. The check goes straight to the SLE so he has no involvement with that. I don't want him to come back to NJ just because that's where he can get a job. I believe he is in a good place, surrounded by people who care and support him. So, I'm just going to take it day by day and tell him we will need to re-evaluate everything in 2 weeks if he hasn't gotten a job. Thanks for your support.
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