How long is my husband supposed to live with the sober, boring, not fun me?
Can you leave the sober bit in but change the "boring" and "not fun me" parts ?
I've had to stand in a room of drunk people and had to listen to them repeating themselves. It was boring and not fun, but it was'nt me that was the problem .
I like to sing , play games , play music , watch comedy , films with popcorn , go for walks and observe wildlife , give massages , paint pictures and lots of other things .
Getting sober , to me , is only one part of recovery . I'm sure with time things will become apparent .
cheers M