Originally Posted by
KnBlueSkies 
We are still very much in love, and have a great marriage based on trust, respect, silliness. But now it also has a bit more depth to it because of all we have been through.
I'm just curious, BlueSkies, what brought you to SR. Your story is not at all typical of the group. I don't mean this offensively, but I would give advice with caution. It's almost as if you have won the lottery and are advising others to go out and spend their life savings on lotto tickets. BIG gamble!