Originally Posted by
NikNox 
... but her mum will make her feel that she has to care for her, we know that, and she will feel that she must.
Again, this may or may not happen. Her Mum certainly has a history of trying to make her feel guilty, but your SD seems to be learning to not buy into that.
I hope you can try not to project your fears of what might happen on to this situation. Perhaps wait, watch, be open to anything your SD wants to talk about, and see what happens. One day at a time.....
