Wow, walktheline, thanks for sharing!! I asked ABF to move out a week ago, and he's been to a chem dep counselor and is going to a meeting tomorrow, but cmon, it's been a week! He's begging to come home and it's killing me. I've stopped answering the phone, and keeping it off most of the time, which I hate doing because my friends who know what is going on are worried if I don't answer. Probably will have to get a new #.
ForLP - read Codependent No More. I started and have had trouble putting it down. I have highlighted so many excerpts and symptoms on the iPad, it's crazy. I really didn't see anything wrong with me, but now I realize I have to address this issue before I can be in a healthy relationship. EVER.