he was verbally abusive and had problems with rage through that time...ranting and raving about how awful his life was, how the world was against him, how his company is out to take advantage of him...a raving lunatic...so sour in his attitudes and how he viewed the world...he's a total racist...he'd get into heated arguments with the other folks
I am no psychiatrist but this guy has more issues than just alcoholism and immorality. There is something deeper at play here that you have been married to.