Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
It's a process - this thing called detachment. I practice it every damn day. And believe me, I have slipped. Recently. And yes, the stove...its still HOT in my world too.
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Dammit, why doesn't someone just unplug the stove? That would make things so much easier, LOL! It will still be there, yet it will be ineffective.