I stopped talking to his friends, family or anyone who knew him even
At first I thought it would be "for a while"
Then I learned most if not all of these people were on "his side" and did not care much about me, so I reconnected with MY friends, MY family, posted in SR like a mad woman, and made new friends who have nothing to do with alcoholism.
Sports also made a difference.
Also deleting all the pictures and blocking the emails, facebook, etc.
Going NC has restored my sanity and now with a more clear mind I am very grateful I stuck to it even when it was difficult.