I also had to laugh - to me that was an HP intervention of sorts - that you texted the wrong number. I hope you take it as such...there is no good that will come from engaging with your AH. As I have said before, you'd probably have more success engaging the local nursing home residents who have severe dementia.
Addiction protects its perimeters. This is a battle you can't win. I have a quote that hangs at my computer in my office. To paraphrase, it says its better to be peaceful than right. You already know you are right. He doesn't care. Leave it be.
Big hugs to you today. I know the bouts of rage well. But nowadays, I call someone else to vent. I know, without a shadow of a doubt, my stbx could care less about my feelings. He is far too wrapped up in his own.
Stay strong!
~T