Oh, angrywife, I'm sorry about the slip....and I'm sorry you feel invalidated. What DefofLov said is true, though. You are important, you are worthy, and you don't need him to acknowledge that. It's an inside job.
I had a laugh
just a tiny bit because both my husband and I have had our cell phones lit up with angry messages and texts that were wrong numbers. We, too, have had to send the "I think you have the wrong number" reply to get it to stop.
And no, this did not happen recently--so it wasn't you!
I hope you are feeling a bit better today!! No contact is a blessing....