Have. A. PLAN!! Sobriety doesn't just happen. You don't stumble into it. Think about when you were drinking. I mean really drinking. You switched liquor stores so the clerks didn't see you coming in all the time. You hid your accounts from your spouse so they couldn't tell how much you were spending on booze. You timed your liquoor store runs so no one knew you were out getting your fix. You had a hiding spot. Your had a couple of hiding spots. You had so many hiding spots you're still finding them. You hid your empty bottles and threw them away in other people's cans. In other words, you had an elaborate PLAN. Plan your sobriety with even greater care and you will reap the benifits.