Thread: frustrated ... can you convince an addict?
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Old 06-21-2012, 04:45 AM
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Originally Posted by cris808 View Post
Maybe I'm naive. I try to tell my AH that I know he's still using and that he's not doing what he needs to be doing. He's not going to the doctor or meetings (he's on suboxone). Loaded on father's day and ruined that. Loaded again tonight. Calling out from work because his back hurts. REALLY? Why do I feel the need for him to fess up so I can do something. I know I need to leave him but am scared. Y? I supported my family myself with him as an addict for almost 10 years. Obviously I can take care of just myself and daughter. What can I do to help or to have the strength to do what I need to do?
You didn't cause it, you can't control it, and you can't cure it.

He has to want and embrace recovery on his own.

And the best thing to do is take care of you and your daughter.
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