Spes & Oh Boy, thanks my friends. It is nice to know that I am not alone, even though there are variations. What is maddening like today. Got off the phone with her and our conversation was great. She is out of town right now and she misses me and the way we hang out. Problem is her version of hanging out and mine are different. The reality of it is I am by myself after 8:30 because she is usually passed out. With her being gone for a bit, I am by myself but have the peace.