I agree with Best. He has GOT to keep going to meetings. If it were me, I would tell the current sponsor that the relationship just isn't working for me and that I will be seeking a new sponsor. Then I would keep my eyes and ears peeled at meetings and find someone who has some good sober time and is working a solid program. When I found someone, I would ask them if they would sponsor me. If they said no, I would keep looking. Your husband would not be the first person who had to try a few different sponsors before he found one that worked for him. Tell him we are rooting for him!!!