Believe me I know how bad this is, you think I don't feel guilty every day since the day I found out I was pregnant? I sometimes cry at night thinking about the life I've brought dd into. I never thought any of that was a good idea which is why I never married him, and he knows exactly why we are not married yet. Not to mention that after that first oops I have been extra extra careful to make sure that it doesn't happen again. I am here trying to get support & figure out bring my daughter up to be a healthy & responsible adult not have my past mistakes brought up.