I found out we have another chance with an outpatient program that will work with our schedules, so today there are NO excuses. I told him to call and make an appt today or start looking for another place to live. Yes, I guess I'm not giving him much time, but he's had enough time to get his act together. Now the tricky part is really sticking to it and actually getting him out of the house.
On another note, he's on a blaming phase at the moment, so I told him if I am causing that much stress I will stay out of his hair. I have done just that. My meals have been eaten on the back patio & I've been in and out all day, anything to not be around him. Hopefully he'll get the picture.