Thanks everyone for your advice and kind words. He's off to work now of course I couldn't log on to here last night I didn't want him looking over my shoulder. He got home last night and didn't discuss what happened as far as the talk he and his sergeant had. It was like the elephant in the room and it was weird and awkward because I was ready for battle so to speak. I'm just wondering what is going to happen today. It's a new experience day by day with him. I'm hoping his leadership getting involved is beginning to open his eyes. I guess I see the best in him and his potential and I know in my heart he can let this go. But thats if he wants to...