My son is 7, and he told his therapist yesterday that he and I are a team. Therapist asked if daddy was on the team.
My son looked at me for permission to say it...
"No. He kind of just does what he wants to. "
My son also told me there yesterday that he wishes I could figure out a way to just not get so angry at daddy, because I cannot control him anyway.
I felt so conflicted. I felt weird thet my little boy was giving me proper advice about my emotions, and detachment, and I also felt like I am doing SOMEthing right...He is learning the right things. ANd Therapist feels that he is as well adjusted as he can be under the circum.