she lets her H beat her up and always takes him back...
AH is friends with my best friends husband...
AH has been texting her for info about my friends and how to contact them. She claims she has told him he shouldn't be planning anything and that I wouldn't want him to do that. I don't understand why a "hell no" isn't just her response...
Just a guess but the 2 AH's being friends could have a lot to do with the reason why.
Keep safe, however you decide to handle it. Reading of his surprise plans just for you and yours puts my entire system on alert.