Originally Posted by
tjp613 
I must be missing something. WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD YOU invite him to be a part of your birthday? After all that has gone on between the two of you, what gives him the VAGUEST idea that this is even in the realm of possibilities???
Came up with a clearer answer... Why would he have that idea? Because he's nuts! Because he's a narcissist who thinks that the world revolves around him. Because the idea of my wanting a life free of him is crazy to him. Because he's told me for years I'll regret what I "threw away" when I'd tell him I wanted him gone. He seems to believe my life is not complete without him in it and if I were a betting woman, I'd "bet" that this alleged "party" planning is coming from a place of "damn her-- she doesn't want me well I'll force myself on her".
Hopefully I made more sense this time than the first!
