Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
So, I had an amazing birthday already and perhaps AH is just bent out of shape that I in no way asked him or wanted him to be a part of it and so he has to force himself on me.
I must be missing something. WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD YOU invite him to be a part of your birthday? After all that has gone on between the two of you, what gives him the VAGUEST idea that this is even in the realm of possibilities???