Originally Posted by chronsweet

Wow, the guy is INSANE. I would be scared and try to get away for the weekend if I could. Take someone with you, an adult? Go to a relatives house, anything. When you said he was 'planning' something for you, with your history with him, my mind goes to bad places. Do you have a security camera set up at your house? Sometimes reading your stories about your xA, I get really scared for you. Take care and do NOT contact him would be my advice. And a frenemy, I wouldn't trust to 'deliver' any kind of any message.

Take care WTBH.

Originally Posted by Florence

Wow. This one is over the top. Seriously, this gives me the willies.

6) Call your lawyer. Like, now!

7) The manipulative b**** method: Surely there's someone on the guest list (assuming this is a real thing) that you can talk to other than your friend or the ex. I'd give them a call and ask whether they'd been invited to your house for a birthday celebration. If not, no big, how are you and the kids. If so, act all perturbed about what your ex is up to, since you're getting a divorce and all and aren't even on speaking terms. Make sure to use the words "creepy" and "weird" a lot. Mention that he seems a little "off" lately.