ok - i just got the impression you thought it was ok for him to be angry at you because of the situation he was in ~ like it was your fault ~ seems like manipulations & projecting those emotions onto us happens quite often. . .
Kinda brought back LOTS of memories for me - i allow myself to take on lots of that anger from my exah for years because of all the consequences of his actions & I couldn't fix them! <--- looking at that now really makes me see how dysfunctional I was in the relationship.
sometimes it's hard to see the forest for the trees - lol
I truly hope you enjoy your time away - hope it's filled with peace, sanity, serenity, laughter, joy and happiness - all the things you deserve on a daily basis!
PINK HUGS,
Rita