No, your right lizatola, normal isn't walking around the house with an ankle monitoring bracelet.
Was it ever "normal" lizatola? Maybe this DUI and subsequent attitude and behaviour related to the DUI, has served to illuminate the reality of your life together. Sometimes life has a way of pushing us to see things we might not want to.
I hope yourself and Son are still going to FL. I think you really need the break if nothing else.