Lizatola. I use to do the same thing....well he did take me shopping or he has sleep issues so his mind is foggy. Nooooo it's that he simply didnt want to and didn't care. Everything As care about they go the extra mile to make them happen from buying booze, to filling RXs, to creating very elaborate manipulations to get out of work or responsibilities.
The truth sucks and sounds horrible and shocking. That they just don't want to and don't care. When we face the truth now we have to do something about and that is freakin tough. I did it 3 weeks ago and it was the best thing I could o for my self but wow I'm still struggling and feeling lonely as hell.
Better to not count on your hubby for Anything other than addict behavior.