letting stbxah get under my skin
This is what I got from stbxAH this morning when he came for his mid-week breakfast and take the girls to school morning...
AH: "So, I want to say something but I'm really fearful to ask you for what I want because I am never sure of what your reaction will be"
Me: What is it you want?
Him: "I was thinking of asking to change days we had the girls this weekend but as I said, I am afraid to ask you for what I want so forget it"
Me: Okay.
And then I said bye to the girls and left for work . NOT about to get sucked in. And then about 5 min ago I get this text.
"u r a selfish b*itch, I try to talk to you and cooperate and dealing w u is like dealing with stalin. ur way or the highway. this is why i don't ask u for anything. self centered c*nt"
I will not respond obviously but my blood is boiling and I have had it with
a. his projection of HIS controlling, selfish behaviors onto me
b. the name calling
c. his inability to use the english language (u r type crap)
Thanks for letting me vent.