Well the AH (don't mean alcoholic husband this time) texted, saying he wants me to file an uncontested divorce, doesn't want anything just a divorce. I said you want it...you pay for it. He was very angry, made up a bunch of lies of what I supposedly did to deserve such hatefulness. I didn't argue. Just said the truth, that if he is capable of leaving 14 years behind without so much as a goodbye, then he doesn't deserve us and he is sicker than I thought. He felt the need to keep telling me that he doesn't want anything so I can't contest it. Ummm ok. Oh believe me, I won't. A 36 year old going home to mommy. Yeah, that's worth fighting for.
I went out with a friend and had a good time. Haven't shed a tear since then.