Old 06-05-2012, 11:55 PM
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gallybhoy
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Hi my advice to you is found out about alanon for familys of alcoholics It will help you understand your mans behavour cause what you are describing when he is not drinking is the classic dry drunk sometimes this person can be worse than the person when they are drinking at least then you know what you are getting when they have a drink in them. Take the alcohol out of them and when there is nothing replacing the alcohol you get irrationality, blame game towards you, the poor me's the list goes on. For your own sanity alanon will help you get peace of mind and understanding that no matter how manipulative he can get that none of this is your fault. By the way my ex kicked me out 4 years ago and ive now been sober for 3 and a half years with the help of AA take care pal and the best of luck with the your life. p.s wish I was going to Florida all it does is rain here in scotland
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