Funny you should mention the part about there not being enough men. When I was about 25-26 (I'm 29 now), my mom would tell me something along the lines of, "if you don't get out more and start meeting more young people, before you know it you'll turn 30 and once you hit 30 there'll hardly be any men left." That's something my mom, and her sisters, are always talking about when it comes to their adult children. Meeting "young people". Just last week at my grandfather's birthday picnic, two of my aunts talking about a cousin of mine who lives in a community of townhomes, "oh, do a lot of young people live there?" Most "young people" go out to bars and "socialize". Along about age 23-24 I outgrew the bar scene.