I'm sitting here with a glass of wine myself. I realized finally that I drink a glass every so often because I enjoy it and if I don't like a wine when I buy it, I just pour it out. I also do NOT ever drink a drop and then drive.
I am so glad you didn't drink and drive, well or drink at all actually! Whenever I want to drink because it's emotional I stop myself and choose to have a glass of sparkling water with lemon. If I was craving a bloody mary then I'd have a glass of tomato juice with lots of hot sauce and salt, LOL! I know, crazy, but it does the trick for me. When I go out with friends I drink ginger ale, too.
Our kids are so important to us and it's important to set the right example for them, too. Sending you lots of hugs tonight!