He won't let me get the rest of my things from the house. I don't know why he's so mad, he chose the bottle, I gave him what he wanted. I don't even want anything big, just my personal items, stuff that belonged to my mom, and my Christmas ornaments.
Have a list of the 'personal' items you are wanting to retrieve. Go to your local police station, explain to the desk sergeant that you need a police escort to get these things as your AH is very abusive and they will send an officer with you. Have boxes ready, so you can grab as quickly as possible and get out of there.
Many of us have had to do this over the years just to protect ourselves. It also seems to calm the other person down when we show up with a policeman by our side.
Hope that helps you to get your things.
Love and hugs,