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Old 05-30-2012, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted by LaTeeDa View Post

Why even be married if you have to detach from your spouse?

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Well....there it is. LaTeeDa asks a very valid question and I don't have an answer. Hopefully, at the end of this 12 step study, I get the answer because I do not wish to consider the alternative. Loving detachment is necessary for my sanity but I am not willing to let her die alone. I'd like to think that loving detachment and marriage are not mustually exclusive but I also respect the experiences of LaTeeDa and others who have already walked my path. I fear the worst is not here yet.
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