Hang in there.... going through same thing right now.. my husband just started withdrawl on the 7th and has been on a roller coaster of normal husband and nasty husband. For at least the last week he has been horrible and blaming most of his addiction and the problems that go along with it on me. I have talked to a family member that is a nurse in a detox ward and she has told me its to be expected.. they are still coming out of the fog and its in the air how long it lasts... hugs your way... I know how you feel. At the same rate your not a punching bag and dont deserve to be beaten down so stand your ground as well.