Boundaries
Recently, I posted about my AS moving home and we set boundaries. Someone asked about those boundaries. So, I want to explain what we have done and hopefully newbie parents may gain something from this. But, you - I want to say 'experienced' parents can give us some advice.
Boundaries:
he must keep his full time job
as a member of this home, he must contribute toward upkeep (do chores)
he must make restitution to his GF (he took money from her) and yes, he took money from us, but we will get to that
he must not steal from us in anyway - of course if this happens we will find out after the fact.
He has asked us to hold his check book and credit cards; ok. He has asked us to watch him take his sub; ok. Please don't jump on me for this; it was his idea and if it works I will go with it.
Like it hasn't been said before - I hate this frickng H thing and everything that goes with it.
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