I know this is the alcoholic in me- but I am not doing every single thing she says. She told me to only take two classes and I took three. I don't work and have no reason to only take two. I go to meetings every day and work my program like she tells me to. She can be bossy and that turns me off. She is a human though as am I. The very core of my being despises being told what to do all the time. Makes me want to do the opposite