Originally Posted by
grizz 
You truelly think you are alone. .
You are not alone; we are here for you when you need us. This place has truly saved my sanity.
What works for me is that she doesn't have to lie or hide the alcohol because we no longer talk about it. She knows she drinks, she knows I don't like it, and she knows, that I know, any conversation on the topic is pointless. So she doesn't need to hide it or lie about it.
I'm not suggesting a course of action for you or anyone else, I'm just saying what works for me. While I struggle with watching her health and mental faculties deteriorate, at least I don't have to struggle with lying.
Take care, my friend.