Originally Posted by
stepsforward 
I think the lies are worse than the drinking sometimes. Dont let her think she is getting away with the lies - she is only lieing to herself. Good Luck and Hugs your way you have a long road ahead of yourself. Educate and take care of yourself. I wish I started to educate and work on myself years ago. Best thing I ever did!!!!!
I tend to agree. I'm still trying to get over the lies and justifications even though he hasn't had a drink since February. I truly think that they believe their own lies, it's part of the disease.