Originally Posted by
nbunderstanding 
It was told to me by my husband and it was confirmed by his sponsor, who is the head of the AA group. This is a very large AA group there are over 100 members that attend each week.
I don't know where your H is going to AA, but I've been in AA for 7 years and AA groups do not have "heads". Each meeting is chaired by a different person and you might chair once every other week if the meeting is every day.
If this is a weekly meeting, I don't know, I don't really go to those. A weekly retreat? As in he stas the night? Please elaborate on how this works. This smells very fishy to me.